Traveling With Dogs Isn't Crazy

Chewy on the QM2

Chewy on the Queen Mary 2, looking out at Southampton

A few weeks ago, an Irish woman was murdered while vacationing in Turkey with her daughter, allegedly by her daughter’s fiance.   Last week, while driving through peaceful Cornwall, an UK radio deejay announced this tragedy and went on to ask the listeners whether this murder would impact their vacation plans.  Overwhelmingly, the citizens of Cornwall responded that they would avoid international travel and especially travel in the Middle East for the next few months because of this one murder.

Now, there’s a lot I could say about this sort of reactionary response, especially in light of the fact that four people died in the London riots during the exact time that this Turkish murder happened.  But, I’d rather quote noted and respected travel writer and consumer advocate Christopher Elliott in his recent post about the reactionary response that the TSA took following Osama Bin Laden’s death: “So why would the TSA want to spread fear and confusion after Osama’s demise? Easy. The more fearful we are, the more compliant we become.”

There’s a lot of this fear-mongering and naysaying in the travel world.  Right before we left on our round-the-world trip, we heard it all: if you travel, you’ll ruin your career or go bankrupt.  Worse still, if you travel, you’ll be scammed, ripped-off, suffer food poisoning, and be kidnapped by terrorists. 

Me and Abby on the QM2

Abby and me on the QM2

What I didn’t expect is to hear this sort of naysaying from Christopher Elliott and Frommers, two of the biggest names in the travel world.  A few weeks back, Elliott posted that he will not be traveling with his three cats during a long road trip and asked whether he should place them in a kennel for a year, put them up for adoption, or find some other means to care for his cats.  There were vociferous, angry responses from “foaming-at-the-mouth pet fans."  He responded with this post, arguing that because there were three incidents in the last ten years where animals have escaped or been let loose on airplanes by irresponsible pet owners, “I don’t believe cats, dogs or pigs belong on a plane, in a hotel, or a rental car unless maybe you’re moving somewhere, and even then, they should be safely confined to a carrier.  Incidentally, I think this represents the view of the average American.”

First, let me make my position on this point clear: each of us must determine our own morality and obligations toward our pets, assuming that those obligations comply with the law.  I applaud Elliott for thinking hard about how to care for his pets while he travels; he rightly wrote that trying to determine how to care for his cats is the “most difficult” piece of his family road trip. 

I get that.  When we left for the beginning of our round-the-world trip almost two years ago, we agonized about how to care for our dogs in the ten months that we would be traveling through Asia, Africa, and Australia.  My parents very kindly agreed to care for them and provided them a safe and wonderful home while we were gone.  We returned every two to three months to check on them and be with them, but, it was obvious that Chewy and Abby did not like us traveling.  When we began packing our bags, they sat directly in our luggage, refusing to let us put anything further in, and my mom told us that they sat at the door for a full 24 hours when we left.  At the end of the year, we vowed never to be separated from our pups for more than a week.

Abby and Chewy in Brooklyn

Abby and Chewy in Brooklyn

So, when we set out on our next travel adventure, we knew that our dogs would be part of the package.  We spent a ridiculous amount of time figuring out how to travel the United States and Europe with them and now it’s happening.  In the last six weeks, our dogs have:

•    Driven with us from my parents’ home in Alabama to Brooklyn, New York, in a rental car
•    Stayed in a Sheraton in Brooklyn
•    Crossed the Atlantic Ocean in the kennels on the Queen Mary 2
•    Stayed in a small family-run hotel in the New Forest near Southampton
•    Romped through the horse farm we stayed in while in the Cotswolds
•    Wandered through moors, ruined castles, and gardens in Cornwall and Devon
•    Crossed the English Channel from Portsmouth to Bilbao in a pet-friendly cabin
•    Settled into our apartment in leafy Madrid

I won’t say that all of this has been easy and I won’t say that they have loved every moment of our travels.  They hate long travel days and anything more than five hours in the car (but, then again, I can’t say that we’re fond of those days either).  They can’t stand doing their “business” on boats and they get scared by crowds of people.  They need a long walk early in the morning if we’re going to leave them behind in the vacation rental or hotel.

But, then again, Abby’s tail goes sky-high when she hits the wild and untamed moors.  Chewy begins drooling the moment he sees chorizo.  Abby’s entirely dormant border collie nature has manifested itself with the herds of sheep roaming through the English countryside.  And, every Britisher with a dog is curious about Chewy’s stubby features and constantly wagging tail because they have never seen an American Cocker Spaniel in England.

Abby's happy face at Brooklyn park

Abby's happy face at Prospect Park in Brooklyn

We’ve discovered that we love traveling with our dogs and our dogs love traveling with us.  Sure, there are days that are hard and times that our dogs get angry or scared --- usually resulting in explosive diarrhea that we try hard to pretend did not just happen --- but that’s travel, in general, whether with or without dogs.  (Not necessarily the explosive diarrhea bit, but the part where we're angry and irritated by traveling; in the last 6 weeks, Patrick and I have suffered from stomach bugs, lost a cell phone, broken a GPS navigator, and waited 2 extra weeks for our car because the shipping company screwed up.)  Heck, that's life.

I am tired of the naysayers, the reactionaries, the critics, and the travel police.  I am tired of people telling me that there is only one way to travel or only one way of caring for our pets.  One murder does not justify shutting off travel to an entire area of the world, just as three isolated incidents of irresponsible travel with pets does not mean that we should relegate our dogs and cats to kennels when we want to travel.

I want to shut out the naysayers and the critics.  I want to ignore them, unless they have tried and experienced what they suggest we avoid.  The people who told us that we shouldn't travel around the world had never traveled long-term, just as those who claim that dogs should not travel have never tried traveling with pets. 

I've done both.  The four of us are doing both, actually, as I write this post.  And, we're all happy, though the only way I have to judge Chewy's and Abby's reactions is by measuring the height of their tails and the grins on their faces.

Ultimately, I don't think that responsible pet owners must travel with pets because not every pet enjoys traveling.  But, I think that responsible travelers must reject reactionary criticism, even if that advice carries the prestigious Frommers label.

* Read more from other responsible pet owners who travel with their dogs at DogJaunt, GoPetFriendly, and Will My Dog Hate Me and their responses to Chris Elliott's blog post.

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09/07/2011 13:12
Well, hallelujah! I couldn't agree more.

We brought our Jack Russell Terrier, Archie, with us (from Vancouver) on our RV trip to Europe and Turkey. We've been on the road for four months with no real problems. As I write this, Archie is curled up next to me, relaxing after an evening swim in the Aegean. I couldn't imagine a happier dog, and it warms my heart.

Happy travels to you, and thanks for a great post.
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09/27/2011 15:49
That is so wonderful to hear! You are the only other North Americans we know traveling with their dog in Europe and I LOVE it! I hope that this trend continues. I can't wait to keep reading about Archie's adventures in Turkey.
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09/08/2011 05:40
Good for you for not letting the fear mongers interfere with your life! :D Stuff happens. With intelligent choices and proper research, the worst of things can usually be avoided. Too bad some peeps would rather hide than live. How cool to ride on a cruise ship! Luved the photos! And romping through the moors?!!! Wow! Very lucky dogs indeed :D

Mom and I so enjoy following your adventures! Look forward to your next stop :)

Waggin at ya,
Roo

PeeS: Mom's curious. You've probably already been asked this and answered it but, what type of work do you all do that allows you this level of freedom of movement? If you have a moment and are willing to share, Mom would be very grateful :)
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09/27/2011 15:42
Thanks so much Roo! In answer to your Mom's question, I am a writer/legal consultant and Patrick is a software architect. We both work as consultants while we travel and have been incredibly happy to find people willing to hire us. We actually have a whole post on how we work here: http://www.theroadforks.com/offtheroad/working_while_traveling
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09/09/2011 22:13
Terrific post!! As you know, you have singlehandedly Inspired me to revive our dreams of traveling with our dogs as well. I love seeing the photos of Abby and chewy on this blog and your other as well - I am waiting impatiently for an opportunity like this for our family! Thank you for sharing all your knowledge and expertise. :)
09/27/2011 15:26
Thank you so much Leesia! Our dogs are having the time of their lives and we are all about inspiring other travelers to take their pups with them.
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09/14/2011 19:13
So encouraging to read! We'll be moving overseas with our Dane in a few years' time, and I'm so sick of people telling me that, despite my lengthy research into it, we'll somehow fail when the time comes and have to give up our dog. It's so frustrating that people can't seem to differentiate between "unusual" and "impossible!" Thanks for being a great example that I can use the next time somebody tells me that I won't be able to do it!
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09/27/2011 15:24
Meaghan, That is a very true point --- so many people seem to think that just because something is unusual, it's impossible. Definitely traveling (and moving) with dogs is not impossible, but it is definitely unusual. And congratulations on your move!
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09/19/2011 19:03
Great post! I have traveled with pets for 15 years, twice overseas when I took jobs. I'm in the process of preparing to do it again. I have learned to ignore the naysayers and stupidity (though at times it's hard.) This time I am moving overseas with my dog (golden retriever mix) Tanner. So reading your posts of adventures with Chewy and Abby is so uplifting. Thank you!
09/27/2011 15:22
Lisa, Congratulations on your big move with Tanner! That's phenomenal - and I can't wait to read about it.
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11/18/2011 12:17
Kerry
These dogs are living the dream!Lucky pooches :)
12/04/2011 16:06
We think so! :)
11/27/2011 16:11
Thank you for your inspiring post Akila! I felt so alone before creating my blog, I was really convinced I was a fool pretending to enjoy my travels with my Jack Russel. I felt so mean, so insane, so immature and now I am discovering a whole world.
12/04/2011 16:05
You're definitely not insane, immature, or mean! We LOVE traveling with our dogs --- it's like instant access into the local culture because people assume that we're locals. Plus, our dogs are awesome companions!
10/21/2012 15:15
Ah, a fellow dog traveler. We (family of four) initially arrived in Europe without our dog, but after hearing of her unhappiness back home, we jumped through all of the hoops to get her here. She has been with us in a very tiny campervan through Spain and France (did I mention that she is a German Shepherd), countless hotels, many a Roman ruins and even on the chunnel to England. We have now settled in Barcelona for a few more months and can't imagine a day without her. Removing the stress of worrying about her back home is liberating AND we are more happy together!
12/06/2012 15:23
Sistercarrie, that's so good to hear! I'm sure that she's had a blast with you and helped make your trip so much better.
03/20/2013 10:58
Peter, Chris, Lucky & Deedee (Boxers)
I'm am so very excited to find this site. My wife and I are planning an extended trip to Europe (2 years total maybe) leaving in Spring of 2016 or 2017. Our goal is to be at the world cup in Russia in 2018. Our initial thought was to ship our truck and 5th wheel to France but it seems that it may be more economical to just ship the truck and buy a used camper for the duration. To all: although we are a long ways out we would love your thoughts and experiences.
04/03/2013 17:22
Yay, what an exciting journey! If you're planning on shipping your truck, I'd recommend that you read our other blog post on shipping a car to Europe because we ended up finding that it took a lot more logistics than we expected to get the car over there: http://www.theroadforks.com/worldtrip/england/how_to_ship_your_car_to_europe
04/03/2013 17:21
Sounds perfect! We hope that your pup is having a great time in Barcelona, enjoying all the beautiful parks in the city!
03/11/2014 17:58
Beverley
Hi,
I would like to take my dog from Montreal to Sydney, Australia. She is not good on flights so I was thinking of a cruise but it would be ridiculously long and expensive� Maybe a combo so she is not flying for 30 hours, with a 6 hr break in-between. We got her in Australia so she has done the flight as a puppy and it really effected her. Any ideas on how I can get her there without flying or minimal flying. I would want to be in Sydney by end of July.
05/07/2014 10:17
Beverley, Sorry for the delay in answering this but unfortunately the QM2 is the only cruise ship that offers accommodations for dogs and they only offer it from the Southampton to New York trips. So, you'd have to fly your dog to Sydney.
04/23/2014 16:27
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How helpful to run across this site! My husband is a professor who'll be leading a study abroad in Italy semester a little over a year from now. We're already concerned about our huskies, what arrangements to make for them back home and how much we'll miss them during that time. They're both rescues as well, so we don't want them to feel abandoned again. We'd moved abroad and back with our dogs when I was growing up, so the idea of taking them with us keeps popping into my head. Provided there's reasonable certainty that they'll make the flight over and back safely, why not? Thank you for the inspiration and great stories, pics and ideas.
05/07/2014 10:21
Ginger, thank you! Our dogs both LOVED Italy. It was one of their favorite countries as it is such a pet-friendly place and dogs are always catered for. Both of our dogs actually became very good at off leash work while we were in Italy since most dogs are off leash there. I highly recommend it!
07/08/2015 09:09
Very interesting post and I think it proves the point! I'm moving with my golden in two months so thanks for sharing your experience!
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Its great to see that author is visiting to turkey for having fun and the main purpose for the treatment of his dog, great to see that he is taking care of his dog.
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